Vegas-Niagara
The evening in Vegas was to catch up on the shows we had missed a couple of days earlier. Bellagio fountain dancing to uptown funk(one of the songs of flavor at our home right now. so yay!) After a long walk up n down the stairs, across kilometers within the casinos in this made-up world we stopped for a much needed sugar break at Hershey's. The super good marketing in this store had us at wall of chocolates.
The evening in Vegas was to catch up on the shows we had missed a couple of days earlier. Bellagio fountain dancing to uptown funk(one of the songs of flavor at our home right now. so yay!) After a long walk up n down the stairs, across kilometers within the casinos in this made-up world we stopped for a much needed sugar break at Hershey's. The super good marketing in this store had us at wall of chocolates.
Car return drama at Vegas was one of the crisis moments in our trip. Prash is a God-level driver and I almost never get roads mixed up. But that night with our car running low on fuel and running an hour behind our planned schedule... we just lost it.Not sure how one thing led to another and we were panicking and only by a stroke of pure luck made it on time to catch the flight to Buffalo.The most dramatic plane chase was followed by a car rental mix up at Buffalo.Now we had planned it all meticulously or so we thought. A date confusion that arose because we were always reaching the next destination on the same day we started. Blame it on the constant time zone changing or plain oversight, we had booked the car to be picked up a day earlier. It dint cause more grief than loosing a couple of hours and off we went with a different car paying a bit more than we had the pre-booked one for.
The borders across counties have never felt so inconsequential as between the US and Canada .. just a bridge and passport control away. Was interesting to note. Much like Johar Bahru and Singapore. Germany and France...Wonder how the air would smell alongside the borders between India and any of the other countries connected via land. I guess its more than just an imaginary line of division in that case. Why this complication when some other countries have it simplified. (I will have to stop thinking of India! for today atleast).We did a heli ride over Niagara. The most wonderful n most expensive 10 min ride of our trip.The gorgeousness and the size of the wall of falls could only be seen from that height like a bird, in comparison with the buildings and other landscapes around. We later did a boat ride to go upclose. In that sweltering heat, the rainfall splashing mist that drenched us wet even with a poncho on was an experience. This is what probably heaven is all about:) I was super stumped they dint provide life vests. Like what? why?
I cant recollect what we ate for most of the meals. The body clock was so messed up.. not sure when we felt hungry and what we ended up eating. The subways and taco bells at exits and Starbucks coffee and gallons of water.I was mostly only thirsty dont remember feeling hungry or craving sugar like I normally do while on the road.
We decided to drive down to Prash's friend M's house even though we'd reach by only 10 in the night. There was no way Prash was going let long-drive-in-a-fatigued-state get in the way of catching up with M.Lots of windmills n beautiful and slow country side drive. Towns named java 8/6( lol wat?).Most shops had this weird (to us atleast) No shoes, no service policy. Prash goes barefeet everywhere in Auckland summer. Here, in one store though he got yelled at n thrown out! i was only glad he dint get shot at given the anger the man behind the counter displayed and the fact that guns are like grocery in this country.Rattle snake hunt for recreation. Lol what again? :D The creative ways to pass time in the rural towns! We saw the sun go down and paint the sky pink over huge mountains: some red, some green and some brown. The vastness of the landscape felt like I was holding a magnifying glass.
New York New York
The skyline with its Lego columns n shiny lights that are never ending was just the beginning of my impression of this big Apple.It's crying out loud and displaying man's engineering capacity. .
We felt confused, overwhelmed, fascinated, exhausted, happy, delighted and awed. All in a matter of a few hours walking in New York summer. The super crowded port authority bus station in central city is where started our day long elbow-arming-to-make-way walk.We walked up and down the streets and avenues, marveling at the tall buildings, the things they displayed and the dreams they sold to millions. Museum of Modern art ! ya like y? I dont know go ask someone else ;) but we spent a good 2 hours reveling in joy that our lil artist sat n made notes on art. Prash was in only for the air conditioned indoors I could tell and I was only looking for a kick-ass coffee as I have a theory that artists derive inspiration from food and coffee.So if a place tries to draw in ppl for art they need to bundle it with decent coffee.By dusk we made it to the top of the Rockefeller center. I was jaw dropping wowed at the view of the empire state side. Prash having seen it from other taller/better viewpoint stayed twisted-lipped the whole time.We wanted to wait till was dark and to keep k busy came up with spot the plane game. Funny how this is what i remember.. 12 planes at once in the bluey pink sky.Walking back and along awesome times square, we came home close to midnight and sleep eluded us may bcoz of being over-tired or over-awed.Everything was big..the shopping malls, the meals, the drinks.
The next morning was for saying hello to Ms.Liberty. Driving in new york traffic was not going to be easy. We had sort of gathered it by now.But despite leaving 5 min earlier than the time GPS suggested we were about 10 min late in arriving to board the ferry to liberty island.The desolate parking lot and total lack of any directions on where to board the ferry from was so not what i expected.This country is not tourism focused. Of course when the contribution to GDP is around 2% as opposed to 16% in NZ(very rough #s from google) such differences are probably the norm but quite unexpected for me.The globe telling the migrant stories on Ellis Island enroute to liberty island was very nice.Ms.Liberty in all her grandeuer and true form. With hope in her eyes and a step forward ..we liked how they let the color be natural almost as if to let the spirit of let-everyone-be-who-they-are. There is no need to polish and shine. There is no need to fix them kinda message.Funny how we loved that idea on a statue but in our persons try to correct, suggest and fix each other!
After eating the longest dosa ever in near-shivajinagar like place in new jersey I went off on my own to indulge the shopper in me.I had 3 destinations on my mind and around 8 hours. I managed to do justice to half of one of the places.Such underestimations are a total first in my planning !Shopping deserves a highlight. My experience left me over-awed in terms of varieties and styles.The shop assistants though! were probably too few and too impersonal.They were cordial and polite but I much like the way I am genuinely treated nicely back in NZ. At one shop the superficial afro-american sing-song conversations the shop assistants were having made k n I giggle.Thought that happened in movies alone :)
Washington DC.
It was during this drive it occurred to me that all these roads and infrastructure have been around for donkey's years. All turnpikes are expensive n old. The toll amounts in ridiculous cents..could probably just make it simpler by collecting from the car rental place or charge the cc or whatever but then may be that is a legacy they want to keep! Driving in rain has always been fun, but the thunderstorms on that freeway that evening! + crazy drivers combination ended making me wish we reached our destination safe and soon.
The highlight of the trip was the people we caught up with.How genuinely happy we felt after talking to every single of one of our friends and cousins and aunts and uncles.Most of our trips are not about people and even in this one meeting ppl was just a small part of it ...or so we thought till we realised how happy we felt after that day!Its always lovely to catch up with friends. Its amazing how time freezes when it comes to bonding of that nature. It was brilliant to forget that we had the other moved-on/grown-up lives to go back to :)
The effort that my cousins and their family put in to make us comfortable in their homes. How Prash's friend S took a train from BWI to Charlottesville and then in a couple of hours after dinner drove back with us the whole distance. Some may call it crazy but for those few hours I reveled in the impish joy that was plastered on Prash's face while they relived days of college and all night drives just to catch up for the weekend. The way K settled in and felt at home in L and V's home in Gaithersburg is something Prash and I cant stop talking about. My cousin S and her adorable daughters in Irvine. Not sure if any of the lil girls will remember anything of the days they spent together but it sure was a jolly good time for us parents to watch and play along.
All these connections.. these threads in the fabric of life that we miss out catching up frequently with and yet feel so good when we meet, ended up feeling incredibly thankful n happy!
The next day was to see the museums and walk on the streets of DC. Loved the city! so nicely spread out. Not too many high rises and everything exuding a sense of power and royalty. Natural history museum with it's stuffed animals and diamonds was all consuming. We got lost in that world for a few hours. After watching buskers in front of white house we walked over to the Washington memorial. The windy and hail-stormy rain left us soaking wet. We just gave up trying to find shade in that huge open space and walked in the puddles on hazy roads. was much fun!
Charlottesville
The cute city at the base of the aptly named blue ridge mountains. So calm and peaceful with fireflies under full moon light and the sound of deer barking in the night.We made a short trip to the wineries at Croset :Kings family vineyards... Cheese n crackers , crose wine.. stables...and catching up on stories with S and family.
Luray caverns
Driving along and into the boondocks aka the American countryside , the first pleasant drive with open windows and beautiful country homes lined up by the road. Inside the caverns we surprised nicely by the mirror lakes, castle like formations, sunny side up formations and all things that looked like cake batter settling into, dripping into shapes and forms.
Irvine
Such a neatly organised and nicely spread out city. Palm trees are generally sign of shade but here they were ornamental mostly ;) Mega size stores and an abundance of both good n bad sort of test one's mental resolve to not-buy things u dont need. It was a pleasant few days here and for the first time I actually got behind the wheels and drove the huge monster car even if it was just a mile on roads that had no traffic ;)
Disney
For the 2 days in Disneyland, we were kids just like our lil one and enjoyed being in the truly happy place.We felt this was also the right age for khushi to remember a few things from the land of magic and fairy tales.
Notes on the rides we did:
Pinocchio: The first one we hopped onto. The story was told too quick but the idea of ride and story was impressive.
Pinocchio: The first one we hopped onto. The story was told too quick but the idea of ride and story was impressive.
Star tours: The near VR experience was awesome.
Pirates of the Caribbean: So well thoughout and detailed. The drop through the falls was so good!
When it ended we wished it dint.
Buzz lightyear:Shooting away random targets for glory. always fun!
Dumbo elephant: K n I went on this for her and her only.
Finding Nemo submarine: was a claustrophobic ride. sitting in an non-ventilated super cramped
space with sweaty tired torurists. Not one of my fave rides.
Sleeping beauty: for the love of Aurora and they lived happily ever after... Can anyone get enough of these fairy tales?I think of what my lil one will find once she grows up. A part of the practical mother in me wants to tell her princess/charming prince and their dreams always come true only in fairy tales, real life is well hard knock life! but for now and for a few more years I am just going to indulge her and her ideas of castle-life and pretty dresses:)
Peter pan's flight: We went in because there were a lot of ppl waiting in queue. Ya we use such brilliant judgments 'so many of them are waiting , it must be awesome'. But it was! it did feel like a flight though K n I were interested in finding other flights and kept saying hey look there is another one while prash thoroughly enjoyed captain hook's antics.
Roger rabbit and Mr.Toad: forgotten already
Go coaster: The actual roller coaster of the whole lot. Funny how u shout out loud at the drop and twist even if u r a 34 year old adult that has a belt tied around u for safety.
Beautiful world boat ride: The festive cheer and puppet dolls. Songs and merry that makes one think of christmas.I was happy to be in the cold air conditioned indoors but got to give credit to the set up too.
Soundsesational parade: A brilliant parade of song and dance. So much orchestration and effort. applause!
Meeting Mickey: the longest we stood in line for and even the die-hard mickey fan that I was as a child tried to tell me it was worth it, i just have to accept the mickey I drew in my childhood room was way cooler.K though was chuffed at greeting Mickey :D
Musical magical map: These live performance always evoke a sense of admiration from us. was nicely done too.
Disneyland band and non-stop cheerful music kept us going through the hot day.
Night parade: bringing the night to life as if to compete with the sun that torched down the light and heat , the parade was so loaded with LEDs and gymnastics. loved it! i just could not stop humming and clapping hands up in the air to 'when can we do it again' in an endless loop.
Night parade: bringing the night to life as if to compete with the sun that torched down the light and heat , the parade was so loaded with LEDs and gymnastics. loved it! i just could not stop humming and clapping hands up in the air to 'when can we do it again' in an endless loop.
The next day was take it easy day and we reached the parks only late afternoon post lunch.We caught up Prash's friend and his family .The tear-jerking Broadway premiere of Frozen was mesmerizing. Both K and I cried holding hands and we both ended up loving Anna more than Elsa in the end.Seriously live performances have such intensity in them! I love how my lil one expresses herself and gets totally involved in some things.
Bug land and a few other kiddie rides later we did the most awesome cars ride. Brilliantly recreated grand canyon and the theme fit in so well.Loved it and was an awesome ride to end the Disneyland adventures.We went home having lived a day with the characters that we knew so far only from reading books to k.
San Diego
Gorgeous views of the Pacific ocean! Only realised how much we missed it as soon as we saw the sea.
Kids n us screaming our lungs away.. singing off tune songs on this easy breezy drive:)
Only kids can come up with such lines that make u crack up!
Only kids can come up with such lines that make u crack up!
K :Do u want to taste my tasteless donut. :DD
Prash was explaining that manta ray rides very fast to find Nemo and hence the ride here is also v fast.
K: but the ones in the pool weren't really fast or anything.. they were just moving
K: but the ones in the pool weren't really fast or anything.. they were just moving
We did a few rides, some more than once:Elmo ride, Sea lion n otter show, tumble ride.,Tea cup. saw Shamu.,Dolphins,Cirque de la Mar, did net climbing and trampoline jumping to stay indoors for a bit.Manta ride, Ice cream n coffee.Watching fishes pout dreamily and getting lost in their world of water.
One of the evenings we left K be at my cousin's, went and saw the Santa Monica boulevard playing this in loop.Felt amazing to just walk in the cool breeze of the ocean spray along the pier and of course the usual drama of a crowded place was clearly growing us.I found it hard to believe that the other end of the Pacific is where my home is. Its the beach walk up and down every single day.
So near yet so far :)
General WTFs
Potholed roads at DC n NYC
Subway in NYC : nearly threw up.
Some unfriendly shop assistants.
Country under construction. Roads being repaired, buildings getting painted and madeover. Enough already!
Sub standard radio options.. Same songs in a loop.
Hiring carts at the airport. This was a serious WTF in a developed country. come one ppl dont come to big airports without luggage.The expensive airfares that already looked unreasonable now made no sense what so ever. Probably the first time we have had to pay for carts..I nearly cried at having to pay for this luxury... prash just shook his head and said it was not how he remembered it to be.
Unclear signs at airport.
Chaotic traffic in LA and drivers that switch lanes without indicating.
Charlottesville was the closest we felt to being in NZ. Funny how u look-for/miss what u dont have at that moment..trying to find a Bangalore in Auckland, trying to find an NZ in America.Life is always about this isnt it...longing for that ephemeral green grass on the other side! and of course of burgundy denims with chambray shirts, branded perfumes,organic make up, spinach salads, judgmental notes and this quasi-intellectual quest for self enrichment through travel!!
Concluding thoughts
As we drove back to LA from Irvine, the tears just would not stop rolling down my eyes. Prash kept trying to convince that the physical exhaustion has finally gotten to me but I think it was the overwhelming of all the emotions. The fact that the trip is actually over. That we made a very ambitious plan and it all worked out so perfectly.That it was not a tantalizing dream anymore but a version of it that has unfolded itself as a brilliant reality.
As I come to the end of this travelogue, I think of y I started writing this down... ..not sure if I will ever come back to read, but if I do I want to re-live the trip through this. So I have this desire to catalog all that is in one's mind as humanely possible . ...I want to add a thousand pictures, I want to infuse the smells of the places, I want the expressions of distraught and joy on our faces in those places, without all of those things, this is an incomplete description of the experience that America was for me.Prash thinks I have taken the saying ' a picture is worth a 1000 words' literally and instead of posting a few pics of the trip for the travelogue ended up with this massive write up. I though, keep wondering how do we know which of these memories that we are making today are the ones that we need to treasure and will remember in the decades to come? oh well! time will tell.
As I come to the end of this travelogue, I think of y I started writing this down... ..not sure if I will ever come back to read, but if I do I want to re-live the trip through this. So I have this desire to catalog all that is in one's mind as humanely possible . ...I want to add a thousand pictures, I want to infuse the smells of the places, I want the expressions of distraught and joy on our faces in those places, without all of those things, this is an incomplete description of the experience that America was for me.Prash thinks I have taken the saying ' a picture is worth a 1000 words' literally and instead of posting a few pics of the trip for the travelogue ended up with this massive write up. I though, keep wondering how do we know which of these memories that we are making today are the ones that we need to treasure and will remember in the decades to come? oh well! time will tell.
For now, happy to have seen a bit of what America is, happy to be back home :)
Lets start thinking of that next holiday, shall we?
Lets start thinking of that next holiday, shall we?